I just found Bruce Springsteen’s 1980 song “Drive all night” on YouTube (from an ‘08 performance: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nI0fbp9uM6Q&feature=PlayList&p=6F507FE6577B7B94&playnext_from=PL&index=1&shuffle=110&playnext=2). I always loved this song and its sentiments. That’s why I found the comment from someone about the video so interesting. He (I’m guessing it’s a he) writes: “We used to love like this in 1980, for better or worse. Do people drive all night for anybody these days? Or just text em and go clubbing?”
I was just talking with my BFF about that — how “these kids today” have most of their relationships via text messages. What a shame. Not only does that not really give them an opportunity to have a deep discussion, but they’re also missing all that makes face-to-face communication so powerful — the inflections, the body language, the softness of someone’s voice. Now they call people their ”boyfriends” or “girlfriends” but they don’t know the simplest thing about them. “When we were young” (yes, I know I sound like an old-timer) we used to talk on the phone, or in our cars, or at restaurants, for 2, 3, 4, 5 hours at a time. That was usually the best part of a relationship, the “getting to know you” stage. And really, what a life lesson it was to learn how to break up with someone in person well. But hey, the divorce rate of our generation is what, 50%, so maybe our way wasn’t so good after all. But I still can’t help but think kids of today are really missing out on something special …
P.S. The Swell Season has an EXCELLENT cover of this song: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4MZMIYIVLtA
