Every time a married celebrity, sports star or politician is discovered having an affair (i.e. Tiger, Arnold), I wonder how they weren’t “outed” earlier. I guess in some cases the mistress is well-paid to keep her mouth shut, but how many other people must know about these dalliances? The couple must be seen in public somewhere, sometime; in fact, you often hear of locals saying (after the fact), “Oh yeah, so-and-so (the celebrity) came here with so-and-so (the mistress) all the time”. How does that not get back to the spouse, let alone the media, which tracks celebrities’ treks to Starbucks and the grocery store? Something about all this smells fishy to me.