Archive for August, 2009

The Cleveland Orchestra “rocked” tonight!

Sunday, August 30th, 2009

“Rocked” as in “were fabulous”!!! We have the lawn ticket package for the Orchestra concerts at Blossom, and we’ve taken the kids twice this summer (this year kids under 12 are free). Tonight just my husband and I went. As much as I love for the kids to have that experience, I also love to share it with just my husband. You know, when I can actually hear the music. Anyway, we usually pick the night we go based more on when we are free rather than the program, conductor or soloist. But tonight we got lucky. The program, conductor and soloist were all outstanding. The evening’s music had a Spanish theme, including songs from “Carmen” and ending with “Bolero.” The conductor was so into the music that his enthusiasm was carried into the audience, with some, um, elderlyish people shouting “Yeah!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!” at the end of a number. You expect that at a rock concert, but not a classical one. And the soloist – a 25-year-old whiz of a violinist from Italy - was amazing. We are just so lucky to have an orchestra of this caliber play at such an amazing facility as Blossom. To picnic on the lawn before the show and then hear such beautiful music while laying back and studying the clouds or the stars, well, it’s pretty special. Tonight was the orchestra’s last performance for the summer at Blossom; next weekend it’s the Festival Orchestra with Looney Tunes and fireworks. Then we wait again until next summer …

Update: This morning I spoke with a woman in her 80s who also happened to go to the concert last night. She agreed with me that it just might have been the best Cleveland Orchestra performance we’ve ever seen!!

Cari and the Terrible, Horrible, No Good, Very Bad Day

Sunday, August 30th, 2009

If you’ve ever read the children’s book about Alexander, you’d know that Alexander’s day had nothing on mine yesterday. Oh. My. God. If I had a mood ring, it would’ve been black. So yesterday I had the “brilliant” idea of using our free tickets to Sandcastle Water Park, which the kids had been talking about for weeks. Before we left at 8:45, I checked the weather for Pittsburgh. It showed a cloudy morning, followed by a sunny day. That sounded good to me, so off we went. The kids were tired from their first week back to school, so the 2+ hour ride there was far from tranquil. Before we headed to the park, we stopped to eat at Wendy’s, where we watched “cloudy” turn to “pouring rain.”selfThough the park opened at 11, we waited until it cleared up to go there. So around 1 we drive in, and to make a long story short, we find out they had closed the park at 12:30 for the rest of the day due to the weather but they’d be open again ”tomorrow.” Can you believe it ????? I won’t go on and on but you can imagine my mood. Especially since the rest of the day was warm and sunny (hitting a high of 77) and we had to deal with the tears, whining, etc. of three kids who were VERY disappointed and didn’t understand why we weren’t going to the waterpark when it was warm and sunny. I mean, we drove hundreds of miles, paid tolls, used gas, and withstood three miserable kids for hours in the car for this??? UNbelievable. (Two girls who had pulled in next to us had also driven a long time to get there after calling in the morning to hear the message say “We’re open today.” They then called from the parking lot to hear “We’re closed today because of the weather.”). I’ve just never heard of closing a park the whole day, instead of just closing the rides until the rain stopped. ANYWAY. We tried to salvage what was left of the day – we had left home at 8:45 and it was now 1:30 and we had nothing to show for it – so we went to the Pittsburgh Children’s Museum, but not without a lot of tears and whines because the museum was not the waterpark. The museum experience wasn’t perfect either – it was really crowded, my watch died, our youngest daughter got a gushing blood nose and my emergency SOS call to my BFF went unanswered. I thought I was going to lose it. So I went into the art studio and, through the therapeutic powers of art, quickly made this silkscreen print of how I was feeling. I actually felt much better after this. It was short-lived however, because of the hellacious ride back home, which included getting stuck in Pittsburgh Steelers football traffic, a GPS which led us to four roads that were closed and two restaurants which had long since gone out of business, a new pair of broken sunglasses and three overtired children who were bent on pushing us over the edge. Hope your day was better!

It’s interesting …

Thursday, August 27th, 2009

I’ve yet to find a program which accurately gives me the stats of who’s looking at my Web site and reading my blog. But as far as I can see, I’ve got readers (people spending more than a minute) all over the country! So let me give a special hello to the people who have recently visited my blog in Briarcliff Manor, NY; Irvine, CA; Jefferson City, MO; Whitehall and Pittsburgh, PA; Burlington, MA; and lots of cities in Ohio, like Uniontown, Beachwood, Tallmadge, Solon, Lakewood, Maple Hts., Columbus, Cleveland, and of course, Akron. Thanks for reading! Drop me a line (sunthingspecial@gmail.com) sometime!!! I’d love to know what you think!

Area carousels

Thursday, August 27th, 2009

carousel

For a while, my youngest was obsessed with carousels. If someone you know is obsessed with carousels, here’s where they can go for a fix:
… Chapel Hill Mall (Akron) (be sure to look at the pictures on top; they feature Akron-area landmarks) (year-round)
… Memphis Kiddie Park (Cleveland) (summer)
… Richland Carrousel Park (Mansfield) (year-round)
… Local fairs (summer)
… Akron Zoo (opening in 2010)
The Chriskindl Market at Lock 3 had a carousel last winter — and let me tell you, there’s nothing like riding a carousel outdoors in a snowstorm! — but I thought I read recently that Chriskindl would be cancelled this winter because of budget cuts …

I miss my nieces!

Thursday, August 27th, 2009

 

 

 

Ever since my nieces were little, they were the light of my life. I was always planning “surprise places” for us to go and sleepovers and everything else fun. They used to love being with me and I would say “Just wait until you’re a teenager. Then you’ll be too busy with your friends to come over to Aunt Cari’s” and they would always protest. “Never,” they’d say, “we’ll always want to come over.” “We’ll see,” I would respond. Well guess what? My nieces are now 16 and 18. Jobs, sports and friends (mostly friends, and boyfriends) take up all their free time, just like I knew they would. Pretty much I “lost” my older niece once she started high school (and now she’s off to college) and I “lost” my younger niece this summer, once she got her driver’s license and her own car. Even though I knew it was coming, that doesn’t mean I don’t have a hole in my heart and a sadness of missing them. What’s worse is I know this will happen with my own kids, too. My friends who have older nieces say this is temporary, that hopefully when they get older they will “come back to you” and then you can have a more peer-like relationship with them. We’ll see. For now, all I can say is that I really miss my nieces.

"Sisters", Cari Miller, 2003

"Sisters", Cari Miller, 2003

You know your kids are “bad”* (story 2) …

Thursday, August 27th, 2009

… when a restaurant basically refuses to serve you! True story: We were on vacation in New Orleans on a Saturday night looking for a place for dinner. We passed a place that looked good, but two of our children weren’t as happy with our selection and were whining when we walked in that they didn’t want to eat there. The restaurant was busy with lots of tables full of kids, but no one was waiting in the lobby. We asked for a table for 5. The hostess and server looked at us and said, “Half-hour wait.” Then they looked at the whiny kids again and said, “Actually, 45 minutes.” Oh…kay. I asked if there were options. The hostess said we could be seated immediately at the bar or on the patio. I asked if the patio were shaded. She said “No. Just the shade from the trees.” She added, ”It’s really hot out there.” I said we’d sit on the patio anyway; the hostess was surprised. So we went on the patio – which wasn’t even hot – where the table next to us was filled with a group of young guys, eating and drinking. We waited for a while, but no server came out. Finally my husband went in to see if we could get some service and he was told there was no service on the patio. Oh…kay. I guess the hostess was right: we could be seated, we just wouldn’t be served. In any event we obviously left and went somewhere else to eat. What was all that about? Should I be taking this as a personal insult? I’m used to getting a polarity of reactions when people see us coming their way with our three kids — as many people coo “too cute” or “adorable” as run as far away as they can in the opposite direction. Usually I find the reactions funny, but I didn’t laugh that night. (I don’t find too much funny when I’m hungry.) Does this happen to other people with kids?

*again, I don’t mean “bad” — they are just kids …

You know your kids are “bad”* … (story 1)

Thursday, August 27th, 2009

… when you’re trying to talk to a friend on the phone but you have to keep stopping because your kids are screaming, crying, fighting, calling “Mommmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm”, … and your friend tells you, “I have to get off the phone with you now and drink a beer” because your kids are just, uh,  that stressful — and she’s not even there with them!

* you know I don’t really mean “bad”; I mean they’re kids …

One reason we’re called “starving” artists …

Wednesday, August 26th, 2009

… is because people don’t pay us when they should. I know this happens all over — “the check’s in the mail” isn’t one of the world’s most common lines for nothing — but it never fails to amaze me, or disappoint me, when it takes weeks or months for someone who sells my work to pay me for it. In fact, some places have never paid me, period. That’s the thing about “consignment” – you don’t get paid for something until it sells. Then when it sells, you end up playing a waiting game for your money. Then you play the balancing game of trying to get your money without ticking off the gallery or store owner if you still want to sell your work there. And the thing is, you’re not going through all of this to collect thousands of dollars — it’s usually like $50. Because when you have stuff on consignment, the artist generally gets 50-75% of the selling price. So when you’re buying $12 earrings from a shop or gallery, that artist may be only getting $7 for them — which they may have to spend months chasing down — hardly enough to pay for supplies and packaging, let alone their time. It’s crazy, but that is the life of an artist.

Free water fun ideas for next summer

Wednesday, August 26th, 2009

fountains

waterslide1It’s never to early to gather ideas for fun! So here are three places you and your kids can cool off for free next summer:
Wading pools at various playgrounds in Cuyahoga Falls (Valley Vista, Oak Park, etc.). Better for toddlers, but if it’s a super hot day it’s a great place to cool your feet.
Fountains at Cuyahoga Falls Riverfront Square. The water’s cold and it can be kind of scary for the little ones when the water starts spouting. Concessions are available. Bring empty plastic cups – kids love to put them over the holes and watch them pop up when the fountain erupts.
Water Slide Day at Northwest (Akron) Family Recreation Center. Designed for ages 3-7, there were three of these this summer.

Summerpac was a great deal

Wednesday, August 26th, 2009

Cuyahoga Falls’ Parks & Recreation Dept. introduced “Summerpac” in 2008 as an affordable, fun way for families to enjoy “staycations.” I bought one this summer and boy was it worth it! It cost us $59 but saved us tons more (especially since we are not Cuyahoga Falls residents). There were 4 passes each for: the Nat, WaterWorks, Downview Mini Golf and Driving Range and Falls River Cruises. Plus, there were BOGO discount coupons to lots more places like the Akron Zoo and Weathervane Playhouse (where we saved $24 alone on tickets to see the very entertaining “Madeline and the Gypsies”). So if you live anywhere in the area, think about Summerpac for next summer – your $59 or whatever it is if they offer it again next year – will go a long way!